Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect and Communicate with Your Baby

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Editorial reviews

Amazon.co.uk Review
Overjoyed but exhausted? Perplexed but purring? Then you may just be a new parent. And if you're looking for practical reassurance and advice then Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect and Communicate with your Baby is for you.

Clearly a remarkable person, Tracy Hogg (the "baby whisperer") has an impressive ability to understand and relate to babies. Herself a mother, she is an experienced maternity nurse and has derived her approach from her dealings with countless babies and their families. Forgiving and sympathetic in style, her book is well written, immensely readable and is full of gems and shrewd observations that even the seasoned parent may not have worked out. She emphasises the importance of showing respect to your baby: "Just try to remember that this is a little human being in your arms, a person whose senses are alive, a tiny being who already knows your voice and even what you smell like." And so the parent is instructed to give the newly returned-home baby an explanatory commentary and friendly guided tour of his or her new home.

Those who enjoy personality quizzes will love the Know-Your-Baby Quiz in which you can "zero in" on your baby's type which, according to Ms Hogg could be "Angel", "Textbook", "Touchy", "Spirited" or "Grumpy". She then provides tips on the best way to handle each type of baby. Advocating a structured routine with the acronym EASY (Eat, Activity, Sleep, You) she then demonstrates how it works for the benefit of all the family. The book covers most topics from sex to weaning, but possibly the most helpful, even beautiful, section is where the Baby Whisperer divulges her secrets for interpreting your baby's body language, signals and cries.

If you find The Baby Whisperer helpful, you may well also be interested in Gina Ford's The Contented Little Baby Book, What to Expect: the First Year and the slightly higher brow Babyhood by Penelope Leach. --Rebecca Pickering

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Customer reviews

review by: ridingtheunicorn date: 2008-06-18 rating:
made me feel like the worst mother in the world.
I bought this book, hoping to help me with my daughters sleeping, and routine. Instead it made me feel like the worst mother ever. I was trying to do things with her, that made no sense, kept trying to make her sleep all the time, when she shouldn't have been. Such a terrible book, don't buy it, it will confuse you, and make you feel rubbish!!!!!

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review by: bookworm44 date: 2008-06-05 rating:
Not sure where to start
I think this would be an okay book if you felt that you have no idea how to take care of a baby. Like most parenting books. I picked it up after my baby was about 5 months old and found it useless, but I suppose if you had to it start with it might give you a couple of tips. My only advice would be to not take it as gospel and to pick and choose what you want to use and go by your own instinct.

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review by: Sabina date: 2008-05-25 rating:
Brilliant book!
I read this book when I had lots of time and was pregnant! It is a very good book and I would recommend it as I bought it off recommendation. I read Baby Whisperer along with Gina Fords Contented Little Baby and I must say that this book is more practical and works along side the baby rather then pushing the baby to do things it doesnt want to do! I still have this book by my bed!

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review by: date: 2008-04-23 rating:
Outdated and misinformed - badly needs updating
Apart from the interesting section on body-language, I found this technique to be full of misleading, out of date information. The recommendation to put babies into their own room before six months is in direct conflict with SIDS guidelines, and the "pick-up-put-down" technique must be utterly confusing for a tiny baby.

The author also has some strange ideas about breastfeeding, implying that demand feeding leads to a demanding baby (it doesn't) and that women who feed beyond the first year have deep psychological issues (they don't).

It's also centred on the very out-of-date idea that babies form habits early on, which has been proven not to be the case because the brain hasn't sufficiently developed to allow them to do so before around four months. How can it be damaging to rock your baby in the first few months (another thing which has been proven to be beneficial to the brain development of babies) when they have been constantly rocked while in the womb?

The notion of spending your day in cycles of activity seems fair enough, but the book needs to be updated to reflect current guidelines and scientific & psychological discoveries.


review by: date: 2008-04-08 rating:
Good, but not foolproof!
I got this book whilst still pregnant, and thought that this book would make parenting a walk in the park. Great little charts to help identify body language and crying sounds, different baby types, flexible but sensible routine, what could make understanding your baby be easier?

4 weeks after the birth of my little one, desperately trying to get a "spirited" baby (who I only later realised had colic and did not seem to quite follow the body language signals as described by Tracy) to sleep, I realised that things were not so straightforward, felt absolutely useless, and frequently wished that the late GF could make a flying visit just to tell me what on earth I was doing wrong!!

In short, if your baby is not an "Angel" or "Textbook" baby, or has any kind of physical discomfort, this book is too simplistic and can leave you feeling inadequate. However, it seems that after receiving countless emails from desperate mums, TH realised that EASY is not easy and that there were many pitfalls to her methods and wrote "The Baby Whisperer solves all your problems", a follow-up book which I cannot recommend enough as an invaluable accompaniment.

Even if you don't manage to get your baby onto the EASY routine (I never quite did, 5 months on, my little one seems to change his habits or get into a growth spurt as soon as I more or less seem to get him onto it) the two books combined give you some really sound advice on baby care and psychology, the pitfalls of "accidental parenting" - establishing unwanted habits that are hard to break - and good ideas to help your baby to sleep which have proved really valuable.

Although I would probably not buy this book as a present for anyone, it is definitely worth having as a first-time parent and I would certainly recommend it over Gina Ford. Most importantly, buy it together with the follow-up book, the chances are you're going to need it!

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